The Co-Habitation Trap

In this day and age most people think that before you commit to marriage it would be a good idea to "try it out" first. So they decide to live together. Well the research is in. This is a bad idea!
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Cohabitation – The horrible downside of Living together

Of 100 couples who cohabit, 40 break up before they marry. Of the 60 who marry, 45 divorce–leaving only 15 of 100 with a lasting marriage. Thus, cohabitation has two negative effects: it sharply reduces the number who marry, and dramatically increases the divorce rate of those who do. {7}

Incredible Video of the Dangers of Living with a woman

For all of you out there that thought just living with a woman was a good idea think again.  Take a look at this!

Key findings on marriage and cohabitation in the U.S.

A larger percent of Americans have Cohabitated than been married.  

59% of 18-44 have Cohabitated

50% of 18-44 have ever been married

Only 53% of adults 18 and older are currently married down from 58% in 1995

Divorce Statistics: Does Cohabitation Lead to Divorce?

Yes!!  Cohabitating has the highest risk factor for divorce!

43% of those that eventually got married said they had lower marital satisfaction and were significantly higher chance at divorce.

  • Those who marry in their mid 30s have a five percent higher chance of getting divorced per year at the age they got marrie

The landscape of marriage and cohabitation in the U.S.

About 60% of all adults 18 or older are in relationships.  In 1995 58% married 3% cohabitating, in 2018 53% Married 7% Cohabitating. So they say that divorce has decreased BUT marriages have decreased and cohabitation has increased so has the break up of families really improved? 

45 Statistics On Cohabitation Before Marriage

Some statistics on cohabitation are scary as research has found that people who cohabit before marriage are 50% more likely to be divorced.

Here’s Why You Shouldn’t Live With Your Significant Other Before Marriage

Jordan Peterson explains the reasons why Co-Habitation is one of the worst things you can do in any realtionship especially if you are thinking about getting serious and getting married

Is Cohabitation Still Linked to Greater Odds of Divorce?

Yes!!! 43.1% reported lower marital satisfaction, dedication, and confidence as well as more negative communication and greater potential for divorce than those who cohabited only after engagement 16.4% or after Marriage

Premarital Cohabitation Is Still Associated With Greater Odds of Divorce

It’s counterintuitive that living together before marriage would not improve one’s odds for a successful marriage. Yet, whatever else is true, there is very scant evidence to support this belief in a positive effect. 

The perils of cohabitation and why timing is linked to later divorce

That difference is striking. “In relative terms, the marriages of those who moved in together before being engaged were 48% more likely to end than the marriages of those who only cohabited after being engaged or already married,” the report said.

NEVER live with a woman (my untold nightmare of female nature)

The horrible downside of Living with a Girlfriend.  The horror story of a guy that lived with a women.  Never live with a women unless you are bringing her into your world as a wife.

Premarital Cohabitation Is Still Associated With Greater Odds of Divorce

It’s counterintuitive that living together before marriage would not improve one’s odds for a successful marriage. Yet, whatever else is true, there is very scant evidence to support this belief in a positive effect.